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	<title>Comments on: Stop Being A Princess</title>
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		<title>By: Marc Winitz</title>
		<link>http://blackbeltguide.com/2010/05/19/stop-being-a-princess/comment-page-1/#comment-399</link>
		<dc:creator>Marc Winitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2010 02:31:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lloyd, thanks for visiting. You are right, the key is to do it safely but not let that overide the value of pushing yourself to a &quot;reasonable&quot; extreme. That&#039;s a fine line but with qualified coaching/watching you (like a black belt) it is achievable.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lloyd, thanks for visiting. You are right, the key is to do it safely but not let that overide the value of pushing yourself to a &#8220;reasonable&#8221; extreme. That&#8217;s a fine line but with qualified coaching/watching you (like a black belt) it is achievable.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Winitz</title>
		<link>http://blackbeltguide.com/2010/05/19/stop-being-a-princess/comment-page-1/#comment-398</link>
		<dc:creator>Marc Winitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2010 02:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great comments Phil. Performing under pressure fits in with a new blog post I am doing, how prescient!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great comments Phil. Performing under pressure fits in with a new blog post I am doing, how prescient!</p>
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		<title>By: Phil - Less Ordinary Living</title>
		<link>http://blackbeltguide.com/2010/05/19/stop-being-a-princess/comment-page-1/#comment-397</link>
		<dc:creator>Phil - Less Ordinary Living</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 May 2010 17:20:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Marc - 

I know from my own experiences as a long distance runner that we can push ourselves well beyond the point where the Princess kicks in.  We&#039;re gifted with an unbelievably strong survival instinct and ability to perform under pressure.  This definitely extends to every day life - it is easy to put off something that appears &quot;too hard&quot;.  I like your questions and framework for finding out what is behind that laziness.  When we stop being a Princess, everything is possible.  Great post, sir (and love the picture).

Phil
.-= Phil - Less Ordinary Living´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LessOrdinaryLiving/~3/FIjFoTP6jZI/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Break free – Learn to beat procrastination for good&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marc &#8211; </p>
<p>I know from my own experiences as a long distance runner that we can push ourselves well beyond the point where the Princess kicks in.  We&#8217;re gifted with an unbelievably strong survival instinct and ability to perform under pressure.  This definitely extends to every day life &#8211; it is easy to put off something that appears &#8220;too hard&#8221;.  I like your questions and framework for finding out what is behind that laziness.  When we stop being a Princess, everything is possible.  Great post, sir (and love the picture).</p>
<p>Phil<br />
.-= Phil &#8211; Less Ordinary Living´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LessOrdinaryLiving/~3/FIjFoTP6jZI/" rel="nofollow">Break free – Learn to beat procrastination for good</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Lloyd</title>
		<link>http://blackbeltguide.com/2010/05/19/stop-being-a-princess/comment-page-1/#comment-391</link>
		<dc:creator>Lloyd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 13:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree I find that training exhaustion, when done safely can opens new doors of self learning and awareness on so many levels.
.-= Lloyd ´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/PersonalDevelopmentForProgressivePeople/~3/7Tp11ceXxnI/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Triple Your Personal Productivity&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree I find that training exhaustion, when done safely can opens new doors of self learning and awareness on so many levels.<br />
.-= Lloyd ´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/PersonalDevelopmentForProgressivePeople/~3/7Tp11ceXxnI/" rel="nofollow">Triple Your Personal Productivity</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Winitz</title>
		<link>http://blackbeltguide.com/2010/05/19/stop-being-a-princess/comment-page-1/#comment-385</link>
		<dc:creator>Marc Winitz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 20:52:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ted - really great point when you are assessing others. Good luck on your test and thanks for stopping by Black Belt Guide.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ted &#8211; really great point when you are assessing others. Good luck on your test and thanks for stopping by Black Belt Guide.</p>
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		<title>By: Ted Hessing</title>
		<link>http://blackbeltguide.com/2010/05/19/stop-being-a-princess/comment-page-1/#comment-384</link>
		<dc:creator>Ted Hessing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 May 2010 20:27:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One of the most extensible lessons that I have learned from martial arts is to identify a person&#039;s motivation. Not only do you want to know what someone is doing in order to modify the outcome, you would do well to learn why as well. If someone&#039;s acting like a princess, try to figure out the why - then attack that, not their token response. 

Good article! 

PS I&#039;m belt testing in a new system tomorrow and I&#039;ll try to leave my tiara at home!
.-= Ted Hessing´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CubicleWarrior/~3/SGf08yWpsps/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Take Your Child to Where You Used to Work Day&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most extensible lessons that I have learned from martial arts is to identify a person&#8217;s motivation. Not only do you want to know what someone is doing in order to modify the outcome, you would do well to learn why as well. If someone&#8217;s acting like a princess, try to figure out the why &#8211; then attack that, not their token response. </p>
<p>Good article! </p>
<p>PS I&#8217;m belt testing in a new system tomorrow and I&#8217;ll try to leave my tiara at home!<br />
.-= Ted Hessing´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/CubicleWarrior/~3/SGf08yWpsps/" rel="nofollow">Take Your Child to Where You Used to Work Day</a> =-.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 May 2010 22:09:11 +0000</pubDate>
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